You've completely missed my point (and taken phrases out of context). For me (again, this is just me I'm talking about, not the industry) making games is more than just a job. I compeletely throw myself into it, and that gives me "pride of ownership".
Do I love it more than my family? Absolutely not.
Do I expect anyone on my staff to put in overtime without compensation? Absolutely not.
Would I consider them any less passionate simply because they worked their 40 and went home? Absolutely not.
I think maybe we're vehemently agreeing on most points.