Ah friends! I had to exchange like 5 request/confirm messages with one my friend. He was able to add me right after first one, but I saw him in my list after fifth try or so. Not to mention that messages navigation is really dumb, no reply (IIRC), a lot of navigation depth for such a simple feature. I don't have UT3 now (at work) but from what I remember there are too many screens with too little features on each. Why I have to confirm friend and then select send message instead of having this right away in the first screen?