Girls, what you gonna do? (taken from the photography thread)
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is ironing his panties!
Heh! I doubt that.
Keep preaching The Truth though bro!
While you're at it have you ever heard of The Secret? It ought to be right up your street.
Holy Crap.
This thread lost is innocence faster than I thought!
I think it is good that you chose to do that. When referring to a "nice guy" it doesn't mean "nice" under every circumstance. To me it means being of positive, friendly nature. People usually like being around me because I am not complicated or negative, but fun. Simple as that.
This thread lost is innocence faster than I thought!
I think it is good that you chose to do that. When referring to a "nice guy" it doesn't mean "nice" under every circumstance. To me it means being of positive, friendly nature. People usually like being around me because I am not complicated or negative, but fun. Simple as that.
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* Clarification: T2a did not start this thread/conv. It begun in the "official photography" thread. This conversation was slowly derailing the purpose of said thread, and imho had to start a life of its own. So I've simply extracted it, so the photography could stay on topic, and made up a silly title I suppose...- NeoNite
Maybe she should stop dating assholes...?
I've always wondered why girls go for the assholes and then act surprised when they get treated like crap. It's like buying a sh*tty used car and then being surprised when the transmission fails right before an important trip. Why put faith into something so flimsy? It's unlogical.
There's a recipe for disaster if I've ever seen one. If her self-esteem and self-worth is all superficial -- no deeper than her skin and her boyfriend -- she's got problems. What happens when her boyfriend breaks up with her? A mental meltdown? Probably. Have fun dealing with that fallout.
well..
1. she had no selfasteem because of nose.
2. we told her that the world was flat, and she believed it.. for years..
3. she is superficial.
4. she only wants to date "half-blood's and full blood non dutch guys. (racism!!
)5. her bf has to look really neat and almost player like.
6. she took back her bf's after a few times of cheating. (on their side)
7. they have to spend money on her.
We had many conversations about her boyfriends, may they be a-holes may they be nice guys.. and she does not understand that those kind of guys will hurt her over and over.
Some people are just dumb **** and we have to accept it.
Just to quote Bjork on this.
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In defense of superficiality:
It must be said I am extremely superficial. I do not understand people who insist that a person doesn't need to be physically attractive to date. I thought that's why we had a word called 'friend.' While my girlfriends in the past have run a gamut in terms of looks, from petite and mousy (as in nerdy librarian type mousy) to cheerleader-y, they have all been extremely attractive. I have dated bitches because they were hot and I have even fallen for girls that were wrong for me in a number of ways. I love girls that are fun, that love to have a great time and are looking for ways to get a little crazy. Sure, they tend to be obnoxious, but that's often the price one must pay for the ride.
The nerdy girl who plays D&D and loves FPSs sounds great in theory, but often this comes at the expense of the girl being lazy about her appearance (like so many gamers). Who wants that? If faced with the choice of the ugly girl with the great personality and the hot bitch I'll date the bitch everytime. Hands down. Partly it's because there is a thrill of self-esteem boosting when you're with a hot girl. Partly it's because I would rather introduce a hot girl to games/books/movies I love than try to get a gamer to buy nice clothes and get on a treadmill. Mostly I'm just shallow.
So why do these girls take the asshole over the nice guy? The same reasons. They have a set of things that they crave and much of the time the asshole fulfills more of them than the 'nice guy.' How many nice guys go to the gym daily and love to club? How many nice guys possess a self-confidence and talk about what they ARE doing with their life rather than what, maybe, they might want to do, perhaps, if the world doesn't shut them down again?
If the girl meets a nice guy who also happens to be a lot of fun, who is self confident without being an asshole, who is successful in his field and confident about his prospects, who likes to club and go out, etc., she will take him over the asshole right away, hands down, every time. Of course, most of the time the term 'nice guy' is used by nerds who aren't really any better than most assholes: they get just as jealous, they also spend time away from their girlfriends (videogames instead of drinking with friends), they also cheat, they also act like jerks, etc.
So yeah, I'm shallow, it's worked out for me and I'm happy with it. I don't hold shallowness against any girl and I get why they will try to curb an asshole's worse qualities instead of trying to instill charisma into a 'nice guy.' Besides, I think much of this moaning and whining is silly anyways.
~Jason
It must be said I am extremely superficial. I do not understand people who insist that a person doesn't need to be physically attractive to date. I thought that's why we had a word called 'friend.' While my girlfriends in the past have run a gamut in terms of looks, from petite and mousy (as in nerdy librarian type mousy) to cheerleader-y, they have all been extremely attractive. I have dated bitches because they were hot and I have even fallen for girls that were wrong for me in a number of ways. I love girls that are fun, that love to have a great time and are looking for ways to get a little crazy. Sure, they tend to be obnoxious, but that's often the price one must pay for the ride.
The nerdy girl who plays D&D and loves FPSs sounds great in theory, but often this comes at the expense of the girl being lazy about her appearance (like so many gamers). Who wants that? If faced with the choice of the ugly girl with the great personality and the hot bitch I'll date the bitch everytime. Hands down. Partly it's because there is a thrill of self-esteem boosting when you're with a hot girl. Partly it's because I would rather introduce a hot girl to games/books/movies I love than try to get a gamer to buy nice clothes and get on a treadmill. Mostly I'm just shallow.
So why do these girls take the asshole over the nice guy? The same reasons. They have a set of things that they crave and much of the time the asshole fulfills more of them than the 'nice guy.' How many nice guys go to the gym daily and love to club? How many nice guys possess a self-confidence and talk about what they ARE doing with their life rather than what, maybe, they might want to do, perhaps, if the world doesn't shut them down again?
If the girl meets a nice guy who also happens to be a lot of fun, who is self confident without being an asshole, who is successful in his field and confident about his prospects, who likes to club and go out, etc., she will take him over the asshole right away, hands down, every time. Of course, most of the time the term 'nice guy' is used by nerds who aren't really any better than most assholes: they get just as jealous, they also spend time away from their girlfriends (videogames instead of drinking with friends), they also cheat, they also act like jerks, etc.
So yeah, I'm shallow, it's worked out for me and I'm happy with it. I don't hold shallowness against any girl and I get why they will try to curb an asshole's worse qualities instead of trying to instill charisma into a 'nice guy.' Besides, I think much of this moaning and whining is silly anyways.
~Jason
pretty much. I think the "girls like assholes" thing is misunderstood. I believe it's more of a confidence and/or the lack of being controllable thing. A guy that is confident enough to make a girl (and usually himself) believe they can hook up with the next girl that walks through the door has the same appeal. It keeps the hard to get/keep, thrill of the chase thing alive. If you can get a handle on that then you can really be yourself, at least for the most part.
wow sine deviance please tell me how to make girls like me oh master of sex having
Generalization ftw! This is really great! If only there were more arrogant people here with such clear vision!!!
if I so much as a brush arms with a girl I will rush home to immediately post about it on the internet. Everyone must know.
Love is competitive. You don't just stand there and let your opponent take all the rebounds. You need to be right there next to them trying to catch the ball. This will probably involve a few elbows, and someone might even get thrown to the floor. Sometimes you'll even take the ball right out of their hands.
It has nothing to do with being a jerk or a douchebag. It simply means that sometimes other's goals will conflict with yours. When this happens you need to do what is best for you. Competition is just a part of life, and everyone including your opponents understand this. Sometimes it's just necessary to be bad. This is the true meaning of "nice guys finish last".
Looking back at my earlier life I really don't know what I was so afraid of. If you want something then just go get it. Maybe you're holding back for fear of screwing it all up, but honestly how far has that gotten you so far? People are very good at picking up on even the most subtle things in our behavior, and they'll sense the weakness. What's the crowd going to think of the player that just stands by and watches everyone else catch the rebounds? Perhaps he just doesn't really want it? Or maybe he just sucks at the game, and doesn't know how to be successful? Do you really thing a crowd is going to cheer long for a player like this?
It has nothing to do with being a jerk or a douchebag. It simply means that sometimes other's goals will conflict with yours. When this happens you need to do what is best for you. Competition is just a part of life, and everyone including your opponents understand this. Sometimes it's just necessary to be bad. This is the true meaning of "nice guys finish last".
Looking back at my earlier life I really don't know what I was so afraid of. If you want something then just go get it. Maybe you're holding back for fear of screwing it all up, but honestly how far has that gotten you so far? People are very good at picking up on even the most subtle things in our behavior, and they'll sense the weakness. What's the crowd going to think of the player that just stands by and watches everyone else catch the rebounds? Perhaps he just doesn't really want it? Or maybe he just sucks at the game, and doesn't know how to be successful? Do you really thing a crowd is going to cheer long for a player like this?
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TWD posts about going out there and getting it when his wife e-stalked him then asked him out or whatever.
This thread is amazing.
This thread is amazing.