Girls, what you gonna do? (taken from the photography thread)

[FuLLBLeeD]

People being assholes isn't really gender specific. Girls can be dicks too.

One of my friends dated a guy that was a jerk. She told him to **** off and it was over, and then he left her a monologue in a Facebook PM about how he loved her. Some people are just really pathetic I guess.

But its not just romantic relationships, I've had friends I've basically told I don't want to see again because they are total jerks. You are completely responsible for the relationships in your life and if someone doesn't treat you with respect and dignity they aren't worth your time.

 

[Lruce Bee]

We need an intermission.

 

[T2A`]

Who authorized the creation of this thread? Certainly wasn't me. D:

I should add, this rule changes as men and women age.

College-age bro hoes love bro dudes, bro. We should bro out sometime, bro. Get some 40s and bro some Madden on Xbro Live, bro.

Being attracted to assholes is fine and dandy but let's cut the bullsh*t. Either girls want something legit or they want to be a bro hoe. You can't have both. I wasn't trying to argue that girls don't like assholes -- clearly they do. My aloofness has made girls like me when I wasn't at all expecting it.

The problem, of course, is that girls put too much value on the asshole part, go after guys they probably shouldn't, and thus end up hurt in the end. Like Fullbutt said, you are entirely responsible for your relationships and for the resulting aftermath if you've chosen poorly. Don't act surprised if your relationships suck if you consistently get into relationships with sucky people!

Maybe it's related to the age-old problem with long-term relationships -- women go into it thinking they can change their guy while guys go into it thinking their woman will never change. That's a fail in both cases.

Cursed_Soul's "friend" is a fairly classic case of codependency. Her issues run deeper than anyone's ever going to tell her because she's pretty. She only values herself as a person when she's dolled up and not single. The hotness of her currently boyfriend validates her and gives her a false sense of security and self-esteem.

In the end she will probably become a stripper unless someone intervenes and makes her realize she's more than a pretty face with boobs and a vagina.

 

[FuLLBLeeD]

Cursed Soul are you interested in dating said girl? Maybe you can break the trend of terrible boyfriends.

e: Unless you're friend zoned in which case, I don't know.

 

[M.A.D.X.W]

Fullbleed I told you before there is no friend zone.

Who authorized the creation of this thread? Certainly wasn't me. D:

DO NOT QUESTION NEONITE!

 

[Lruce Bee]

Oh jesus, it's blue bold capitals on size 7 font.
This thread has reached maximum seriousness.
Batten down the hatches.

 

[M.A.D.X.W]

Impact = Serious business. There is no font more serious than Impact.

 

[theabyss]

There is more than two personality traits anyway Jacks, it's not like people are just either nice or an asshole or somewhere in between. Maybe you've never played The Sims or you would know this.

Well, people like us actually have a social life and figure out these things by being with real people instead of some freaking computer game.

And there are actually people out there who are honestly nice because that's just the way they are and not because they are faking it. It's like going out to a restaurant. I can tell immediately if the server is just being nice because that's part of the job or if he/she is naturally a nice person.


Oh btw
This thread is serious business.

 

[M.A.D.X.W]

That was a joke.
I know a lot more by observing people than interacting with them. I'm not the one simplifying it.

 

[theabyss]

The joke was a lie.
People from Ireland don't joke around.

 

[M.A.D.X.W]

People from Ireland only joke around, it is the extent of their social conduct.

 

[Jackal]

I am in this thread.

 

[WaitForTheRain]

^ Best post.

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I think that it's really quite simple, women seem to like the idea of being with a guy even though they know he's a douchebag, but they ignore that fact that the reality won't be what they expected or want and vise versa.

 

[Plasmadaemon]

I am in this thread.

Pull out, already!

 

[theabyss]

The problem, of course, is that girls put too much value on the asshole part,

This quote for itself without the thread context calls to be a signature.

 

[FuLLBLeeD]

Pull out, already!

I would have but the phone rang and it startled me.

 

[Kantham]

Maybe she should stop dating assholes...?

I've always wondered why girls go for the assholes and then act surprised when they get treated like crap. It's like buying a sh*tty used car and then being surprised when the transmission fails right before an important trip. Why put faith into something so flimsy? It's unlogical.

Because they are (assholes): Attractive - Have job - Are active socially

Whilst most of the people with these arguments are..
Very average looking - Jobless - Play video games a lot.

Basically, the 3 bolds above is all you need "to get some pussy". And if you have 3, well, you're full of it. And wheter you're sane or not, the girl probably won't give a damn either. The solution to this is usually to stop staring at the nicest ass you can find and stop being so superficial. I'm not saying she should be a monster truck technician.. but there sure are some hidden pearls out there. But hey, I know the typical thoughts of a BUF'er is get as many pussy as he can, on the opposite of me.

Basically you're kind of describing the drama type of girl I completely avoid.
Leave them be. Dumb matches with dumb (assholes).

Attractive (of course) - Intelligent? (or mature?) - Sane?

 

[Jacks:Revenge]

actually, being attractive (at least for men) is highly overrated.

women are the one's who need to be most concerned about attractiveness, given the amount of pressure society and the media have placed on it. despite the advancement of the feminist movement, most little girls are still raised to expect that their role in life is to please a man through being physically appealing and caring for him.

a man doesn't have to worry about how he looks at all, so long as he doesn't look like some sort of deformed nightmare. the only thing the man has to worry about is self-esteem and money. if a man has confidence in himself and can bring home enough bacon to satisfy the women he seeks, then he can mostly skirt the physical appearance trial altogether.

 

[T2A`]

And the saddest part of all about that is that women put so much effort into being attractive in order to compete with other women. It's not to draw guys' attention; they'll get that regardless as most guys are fairly easy to please. Girls do it to compete with other girls in some kind of unspoken battle of the egos.

And then they have the gall to tell us to grow up. Pfft.

 

[Exus Tecius]

as if men dont suffer from female actings.no i didnt read the whole thread soz.