What does a girl look for in a guy?
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Sara already said it; just be yourself, and if it happens, it happens.
Just remember to actually make a move. Don't sit around and wait for something to happen, because it won't if you do that. Even if it doesn't turn out the way you want it to, you at least made your move and showed that you think of her as being a bit more than a friend.
Just remember to actually make a move. Don't sit around and wait for something to happen, because it won't if you do that. Even if it doesn't turn out the way you want it to, you at least made your move and showed that you think of her as being a bit more than a friend.
now that the internet geeks gave you advices on girls, you have to do the opposite of what we all said 
Being a cocky prick may get you laid once in a while but the best advice I have ever been given regarding women (from other women) is to be honest and talk about your feelings. If a woman can see your real self and you allow yourself to be vulnerable then you will know whether you have something real. She will either love you for who you are or, if youre not careful, crush your heart. But I am talking as a guy who chased true love for decades and has finally gotten engaged to a great woman so take my advice under consideration. Its a lot of work to keep them happy so make sure you are really compatible.
U/D/T/SNAKE said:
I think it's mostly because shy is cute, but just cute -- you have to be assertive and somewhat aggressive to get our attention, and bully/jock types are good at that. Of course, from *me* they tend to get kicked where it counts for being asses...but that's just me.
As long as she finds you interesting and somewhat of a challenge, she'll stick around. (Given she's interested from the start)
Be all open and saying 'i (L) u' all the time, a large percentage will -even not intentional- lose interest because they already 'have' you completely, no more 'challenge'.
Woman want the tough guy, not the soft one. And even tho they think they want the sensitive one, they don't.
(I've only ever met one girl who was 100% dedicated no matter what, maybe she was 'the one', but at the time i wasn't thinking right and let her go.)
Be all open and saying 'i (L) u' all the time, a large percentage will -even not intentional- lose interest because they already 'have' you completely, no more 'challenge'.
Woman want the tough guy, not the soft one. And even tho they think they want the sensitive one, they don't.
(I've only ever met one girl who was 100% dedicated no matter what, maybe she was 'the one', but at the time i wasn't thinking right and let her go.)
recon1337 said:
If your on a date, when you think the time is right *your staring in her eyes she in yours* then simply touch her hand. If she doesnt move an inch, then wait another minute or two, continue talking something nice or romantic. Then look at her hair for a few seconds and reach out and touch it gently. If she still doesnt move, go in for the kiss.
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Yeh the trick is to get that situation to happen lol... If your like me, you can pull off the awkward kissing stuff with grace. I just go for it and most of the time it's awkward.. but I somehow figured out to make any situation comfortable for the girl. At least that's what they tell me... I do this by NEVER showing awkwardness.
Sometimes, when people (not just girls) are nervous, they look to their partner to see whether the situation warrants being nervous, like a kid when they scrape their knee. They sometimes look to their parents to see if they should be crying or not. If you laugh it off, they laugh with you. If you start saying "awww are you ok does it hurt?" they begin wailing like there's no tomorrow. If you show them your not worried or awkward, they feel they shouldn't. It rquires a bit of acting skills but once you do it once it gets easier and easier.
Basically what Sara said, If your confident and assertive, it makes the other feel secure. If you come off as solid turf, your lady friend will feel more confident going for the leap of faith.
IMHO, the key is simply to go slowly and move in a way that allows the girl to subtly decline the kiss if she wants. Nothing[/i] can ruin a date like moving too fast with physical affection; it's awkward and embarassing at best, and at worst can completely torpedo a budding relationship.
It's just a kiss.SaraP said:
And it's showing affection and interest. If she kisses me back then i'll know she feels the same about me. I don't think she would feel worse about me just because i tried to kiss her.
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