Like bigguy says he gets killed all the time. He doesn't quit!
No really, I think the advise about playing other servers is good.
Often times I don't seem to do anything in myunreal, I go to some server I'm not familiar with and I own. We got our butt kicked repeatedly in a match so I went to myunreal and didn't do well and felt like a big loser. So I went to another server I didn't know. It had 18 people or so in it and I totally owned it. The other teams players said I was some 'clan dickweed' they were so mad at me. I took it as a compliment and felt a little guilty at the same time.
On the other hand,....most of the time I don't really care about points or owning other players. It is always better to help the team, maybe avoid fights, get energy, hack deploys, or guard an important position. Sure I would like to be able to win every duel but at my age that is unlikely to happen.
Often times when I play in myunreal I just 'go out looking for fights'. That way I will better my dueling skills. But 'going out looking for a fight' is definitely NOT the best way to win this game as a team.
Stick with it. Don't give up. You can't go through life giving up on everything that you are not the best at.
By the way 'thebigguy' is getting better......he will be as good as me b4 long IF HE DOESN"T QUIT!