You know what? I'm leavin the thread.... I know the person, I personally don't like the way you're talking about her. Yea I know "Get thicker skin or GTFO" bs. But really, we're how old now? ..... yea, well you know you might want to consider her feelings on the matter as well too. Wanna talk with her?
Talk with her here at her husband's site. Nuff said? yea .....
I honestly, truly, do not understand how you're upset. No one has even said anything bad. You seem frustrated that people who don't know her regard her as a sex symbol. Well, the fact is, she is. Her movies are sex, she even directed a number of them and she promoted herself doing these things. It is not bad or immature of anyone on this thread to enjoy her as a sex symbol.
If people were to have said that it was all a pornstar was good for, then okay, I see a problem, but people appreciating what a pornstar did/does doesn't mean anything bad. I hate to resort to typical saying such as puritanical, but you getting in arms because of people pointing out her hotness simply because you happen to know her is a puritanical point of view. If you in particular don't want to think of her in a sexual way, that's fine, but other people doing so when she specifically set out to make a career for herself (doing quite well, in fact) in such a way is not only natural, it's perfectly in line.
I would be very honestly surprised if her feelings in any way were hurt by reading the things in this thread. They have mostly been complimentary to her skills as a player with a few references to her being hot.
~Jason