Rogue, I did NOT miss the point, you missed mine. I shall put it another way: Koresh KNEW that his days were numbered, if he wanted to hold out with his men, fine, I got no truck with that. He could have (natch..he SHOULD have) asked that the women and children(or at least the children) be removed to safety, he did no such thing which to me indicates that he did not care if they died and probably wished to use them as human shields(noone knows for sure, Koresh sure ain't talkin'). The point is that there was absolutely NO reason for women and children to be killed in Waco. On the other hand, Mcveigh KNEW that there were going to be women and children casualties when his bomb went off.
Last time I checked, NO ONE considered it brave if you MURDERED helpless women and children...make no bones about about it, what Mcveigh did was murder, in cold blood, dozens of women and children. Didn't Vietnam vets get spit on for killing women and/or children? ..and they were in the service of their country! ..and not only that, some of the women and children were actually used to bomb military locations.
I think people need to reevaluate who they choose as 'heroes'. Terrorism is not, by any way, shape, or form, a noble 'profession' ..nor is it a 'heroic' one. I also severely doubt that Mcveigh WANTED to get caught and martyred. If he really wanted to get caught, why did he even bother running? Why not stand across the street with a big sign saying "I blew up the building."?
If someone wants to prove a point by killing someone, at least have the courage to kill someone who is involved in the cause you are fighting against. Kill a politician, a high ranking military official, whatever...I don't see where women and children fit on that list.