Two men adopting children? No way. It's an embarrasement for a kid to be raised by a gay couple.
it's an embarrassment for the child?
says who? you ever talked to one? something tells me you haven't...
there are (at least) hundreds of thousands (if not millions) of children being raised in homosexual households around the world. have you ever stopped and asked those children if they're embarrassed of their parents? or are you just pulling this information out of your ass? lemme guess; it's coming straight from your ass
the kid will tend to be mocked in school, feel ashamed, etc...
they might be mocked a little when they're young. we're talking elementary and primary school. but even then, most kids today don't care about that kind of stuff. if you're going to be bullied, it will likely be for completely different reasons than simply having gay parents. it won't be much more of an issue than anything else you could be bullied for.
besides, if we outlawed everything on Earth that caused some kids to be mocked in school, then gay marriage would be the least of our concerns...
also, who says that the child will "feel ashamed?"
once again I have to ask; have you personally interviewed these kids? have you surveyed a statistically significant sample of children being raised by gay parents? how do you know they're ashamed of anything?
your baseless assumptions make you look petty and ignorant.
some gay parents will attempt to model the kid to have the same gay lifestyle
no they won't.
are you retarded??
there's not a single shred of evidence to support this statement.
gay parents of adopted/surrogate children
do not push their homosexuality on the child.
that is not why they wanted to become parents. that's an absurd thing to assume and (once again) displays your deep ignorance regarding this issue.
what a ridiculous thing to say.
1) there's the risk that gay parents will try to induce the lifestyle and sexual preferences
2) there's the risk that kids will be mocked and ashamed for extra reasons, but that's no big deal either!
It's not a big deal? Says you. Adoption institutions, psychologists and political parties think otherwise.
ugh... you're an idiot.
but please, allow me to explain why.
adoption institutions have nothing against homosexual couples
unless the institution in question is explicitly religious. aside from that, adoption institutions routinely grant adoptive custody to gay couples. they usually have no problem with this. the only time that gay couples have trouble adopting is when they attempt to do so in a state whose government has specifically tried to make it difficult for gays to adopt.
it's not the institution that frowns on them, it's their own government who the institution relies on for federal funding.
also, there is no credible psychologist that frowns on gay adoption.
unless the psychologist in question has an ulterior agenda, he cannot disagree with the science. because the research is there; it's been ongoing for at least 30 years now - several generations of gay adoption/surrogacy - and the conclusion is very clear. being raised by gay parents
does not adversely affect the mental or emotional well-being of the child in question.
as long as the gay couple itself is happy and loving, there is no psychologist on Earth who will tell that gay adoption is traumatic or harmful. if you find a psychologist who makes such a claim, odds are that he is just on the payroll of some Conservative 'family values' PAC.
Perhaps you aren't considering what matters in an adoption. Only the "point of view" of the child is relevant, only the child's best interest matters. An adopted child is not a toy for someone to inflate their egos.
What I am sure is that it's not for the child to have the burden of being an activist, to change the world or fighting a sociological battle.
do you hear yourself??
you are the person who is not considering the views of the child.
but you're trying to tell other people to do the same?
my god you reek of hypocrisy.
you are the guy who is making up callous assumptions about how the children of gay parents must feel, despite the fact that you've never personally interviewed any of them.
gay couples
do not adopt on the basis of creating little gay activists.
they do not "burden" their children with fighting any social battles. they don't care if their children get involved in gay rights or not. they just want to be parents and raise happy / healthy families like anyone else.
but go ahead. tell me otherwise.
tell me how you know so much better...