Hi,
Since people like to have their say in a lot of things maybe I can get some feedback on something that's troubling me.
I came accross this young lady a few months ago during a training course in webmastering. After the new year she decided to stop and this kind of shocked me for some reason. I got in touch via e-mail and she was quite willing to explain her situation, saying she needed to find a job to get some income in.
That's the context. Now, I think I think I have some feelings for her but it's like the emotion just comes and goes, some times like a familiar yearning and at other times becoming none existant. Maybe I've become so used to not caring for anybody that's it hard to do otherwise. I guess that's what happens when you play tough guy and try to take all the bull**** being thrown at you head on and pretend it doesn't hurt.
I really have nothing to lose in saying this but I really am in a muddle at the moment. For one, I'm kind of afraid those feelings disappear altogether and it'd be a terrible thing to get something started only to end it later on. Secondly, she's apparently broken a long relationship and that can be kind of risky. Thirdly, I'm not sure of her age but she might be ten year's younger than me. Lastly, it's February and as you know there's that day which is special to some people and it can really send out the wrong signals if she's expecting something on my behalf.
So my question would what would you do in this situation ? Or rather how would you handle things ? Joke if you must but I'm interested in any experience some of you might have on the matter. And stuff privacy issues. The chances of someone I know reading this are next to nil so blah ^^ .
P.S: If the crowd at utch* it still reading up on stuff I post here than you must have some serious mental problems. No I am not an anticheater and you can post as many photochopped pictures of me over the internet as you want. Care do not I.
Since people like to have their say in a lot of things maybe I can get some feedback on something that's troubling me.
I came accross this young lady a few months ago during a training course in webmastering. After the new year she decided to stop and this kind of shocked me for some reason. I got in touch via e-mail and she was quite willing to explain her situation, saying she needed to find a job to get some income in.
That's the context. Now, I think I think I have some feelings for her but it's like the emotion just comes and goes, some times like a familiar yearning and at other times becoming none existant. Maybe I've become so used to not caring for anybody that's it hard to do otherwise. I guess that's what happens when you play tough guy and try to take all the bull**** being thrown at you head on and pretend it doesn't hurt.
I really have nothing to lose in saying this but I really am in a muddle at the moment. For one, I'm kind of afraid those feelings disappear altogether and it'd be a terrible thing to get something started only to end it later on. Secondly, she's apparently broken a long relationship and that can be kind of risky. Thirdly, I'm not sure of her age but she might be ten year's younger than me. Lastly, it's February and as you know there's that day which is special to some people and it can really send out the wrong signals if she's expecting something on my behalf.
So my question would what would you do in this situation ? Or rather how would you handle things ? Joke if you must but I'm interested in any experience some of you might have on the matter. And stuff privacy issues. The chances of someone I know reading this are next to nil so blah ^^ .
P.S: If the crowd at utch* it still reading up on stuff I post here than you must have some serious mental problems. No I am not an anticheater and you can post as many photochopped pictures of me over the internet as you want. Care do not I.
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