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"lets just be friends"

Discussion in 'Off Topic' started by TossMonkey, Aug 26, 2003.

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  1. TossMonkey

    TossMonkey brown bread?

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    I just told a girl I don't want to see her unless she wants more than a plutonic relationship. She uttered the infamous "well, we can still be friends though" line. I said, "no, I have enough female 'friends' to last me a lifetime, I don't need anymore".

    I almost felt mean, but then I thought to myself "she's let me ring her every night for the last 3 weeks and blow a ton of money on my phonebill", even though on the second date she didn't see me as a potential boyfriend figure. Bitch.

    I can't wait for the next woman to come along, string me along for 3 weeks while I spend a fortune on her and then tell me she never saw me as a boyfriend figure in all the time I was dating her. Does life get any more fun than this?
     
  2. W0RF

    W0RF BuF Greeter, News Bagger

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    bTotallySucks=True

    Luckily, for all the times we get blown off, we only need to brainwash one, and we're set for life.
     
  3. flookster

    flookster Somewhere im not scatterbrain

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    That sucks TM :(

    I took myself off the market quite some time ago and to be honest havent been as happy in years. I guess I just needed some "me" time. Besides adjusting my personality to suit some temporary gf was never going to work. But if you need a partner - I am sure there is one out there for you and at least you will be able to go to elan now. Silver linings. :tup:
     
  4. TossMonkey

    TossMonkey brown bread?

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    Flookster, you're right. I can now go to Elan. You guys get to see me drunk at least one more time. ;)
     
  5. DeeperShade

    DeeperShade Banned

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    Wait. You wanted her as your GF, she didnt, she just wanted to be friends and now she's a bitch for liking you in a way your not happy with.

    Im sorry but that sounds a little dumb.
     
  6. Toolvana

    Toolvana RL hostage

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    I'm married, and there was no brain washing of any kind involved.
    /me starts to drool as he stares blankly at the ceiling...
     
  7. DeeperShade

    DeeperShade Banned

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    Oh, and it was your decision to spend money on her in the first place. If you were fine with it then, why not now?
     
  8. Hunter

    Hunter BeyondUnreal Newsie

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    damn it i wanted to tell him he could ;)

    waste money on beer instead of women :D
     
  9. TossMonkey

    TossMonkey brown bread?

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    Deepershade, she's a bitch because she never once in the 3 weeks I've been blowing money on her saw me as a boyfriend figure.

    Did she just think I was really kind? Did she think I just love spending a load of money on going to the pub and the cinema while she sits there happily with her free cinema ticket and free beer?

    She took me for a ride. Plain and simple.
     
  10. DeeperShade

    DeeperShade Banned

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    o_O

    Your angry, and hurt. Its easy to believe the worst in people when you fur's ruffled. If in those 3 weeks she hasnt seen you as a boyfriend figure, why did you keep spending money on her?

    Sorry man, i know it hurts but i cant see that she's entirely to blame...
     
  11. W0RF

    W0RF BuF Greeter, News Bagger

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    OH NOES!!! TEH HARRISON BERGERON HAS TOOLVANA!!

    TM - I have no doubt you are absolutely right about this one. Bitch may be a little strong, but no one's that naive...
     
  12. TossMonkey

    TossMonkey brown bread?

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    I kept spending money on her because she gave me the wrong impressions. We'd kiss and talk and it was your typical date situation.

    Look, if a girl kisses me what am I supposed to think? It's not exactly a signal that she wants a plutonic relationship is it?
     
  13. DeeperShade

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    Lol, Next time, post more details man! :)

    If she was kissing you, then yes I can see your POV :)
     
  14. SugarBear

    SugarBear Sadly Un-Surreal

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    stab her, bury her in her own back yard and leave a trail of her dad's footprints with blood on them to his car.

    wankers.
     
  15. KJAX

    KJAX Gamer 4 Life

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    Ahh, women..can't hate them, can't love them, can't bury them in the back yard with your dead dog when they deserve it. :)
     
  16. SugarBear

    SugarBear Sadly Un-Surreal

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    coincidence? I think not

    you may have questions as to the precise response to your problems, I submit that response is before you.
     
  17. JackReacher

    JackReacher [SAS Mod]

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    Indeed, im sure she wasnt asking you to spend money on her.
     
  18. iridium

    iridium ... loves Mr. Lamppost

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    Sucks TM, many of us have been in this situation (or similar), I'm sure. Myself included.. Drove me literally insane.
     
  19. Papapishu

    Papapishu 我是康

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    Well, I've told my friends my sexual alignment; asexual
    That means that until I find my true "anima", I won't bother with dating or anything.
    i'll just live the free life and do whatever I want, and when I meet her, it's all gonna work out.

    There's a chinese saying that when you're born, your feet are sewn to the feet of the person you're gonna marry.
    So if my feet are sewn, I will meet her someday, and if they aren't, I won't.
    Fatalistic, but I don't give an excrement... :B
     
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  20. ^DaRk^AgentOrange|PuF

    ^DaRk^AgentOrange|PuF Banned

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    Ok put the crackpipe down :p
     
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