But that's the way of life. You'll always have to deal with people who'll you end up having conflicts/differences with. (depends on your situation/workplace/school). For your entire life.
That doesn't, however, mean that you should let this affect you, force you into a position/decision where you turn your back on what you really like. You'll end up regretting this.
This particular unreal community, on Buf, how is it bad? I can't see it.
But it's all up to the person in question to make said decision. We can't do it for you. You weigh.compare the good aspects and bad ones. For this community, this unreal forum, the good seriously outweighs the bad.
In my humble opinion. Otherwise I wouldn't have stuck around for all these years.