And then it all went wrong...
http://forums.beyondunreal.com/showpost.php?p=2400576&postcount=3274 said:Quote:
Originally Posted by IronMonkey
I really enjoyed "The Abyss" the first time round
Yeah, I know I can be annoying later on...
How did you meet your other half?
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And then it all went wrong...
I stopped logging into BUF
Lies! Nonsense!
So how exactly did you accomplish this great feat?
I had just moved to Florida in 2003 and was looking for people to hang out with. I met this one girl who brought me to the beach to meet some of her friends. Ashley (my wife now ) was there but was dating some other guy at the time. Well me and that other guy became really good friends and I started hanging out with him a lot. He and Ashley realized they weren't a good match but stayed friends and we all hung out and drank a lot. Ashley and I kept hanging out more and more by ourselves until we considered it a "relationship" and than eventually things got serious.
October 24th, 2009 we got married and thats the end of the story.
Woot!
) was there but was dating some other guy at the time. Well me and that other guy became really good friends and I started hanging out with him a lot. He and Ashley realized they weren't a good match but stayed friends and we all hung out and drank a lot. Ashley and I kept hanging out more and more by ourselves until we considered it a "relationship" and than eventually things got serious.October 24th, 2009 we got married and thats the end of the story.
Woot!
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1. You yourself have said you hate marriage.
2. I'm NINETEEN why the **** would I be worried about getting married?
Don't know if I should call her my "other half" just yet, but she's the cousin of a good friend of mine.
Parents of the good friend held a party for their anniversary, I was invited and the cousin was there. Totally impressed by that girl, but she had a boyfriend and lived not quite in the near vicinity. Off-limits, no big deal. Year later, good friend held her birthday party and the cousin was there again. New boyfriend, still off-limits. We got along really well though and eventually exchanged numbers. Contact got really good from there. Her relationship broke up (wasn't me D: ) and we started messing around a bit.
Right now we don't know what the hell it is we have. We love each other but we've never been in love with each other. We're sort of in a relationship (unofficially), but went straight into that from friendship, without ever passing the ''in love'' checkpoint. Yeess, it's a bit messy.
Parents of the good friend held a party for their anniversary, I was invited and the cousin was there. Totally impressed by that girl, but she had a boyfriend and lived not quite in the near vicinity. Off-limits, no big deal. Year later, good friend held her birthday party and the cousin was there again. New boyfriend, still off-limits. We got along really well though and eventually exchanged numbers. Contact got really good from there. Her relationship broke up (wasn't me D: ) and we started messing around a bit.
Right now we don't know what the hell it is we have. We love each other but we've never been in love with each other. We're sort of in a relationship (unofficially), but went straight into that from friendship, without ever passing the ''in love'' checkpoint. Yeess, it's a bit messy.
Hahahaha This is true.
I was 19 when I got married, and from that experience I can tell you that you should go do some other things with your life first.
You are very smart.
Well, the girl I'm dating right now I met down at the local coffee shop. She was connected to a circle of friends I had there, and we started hanging out. It was summer when we both realized we were attracted to each other, and it just moved from there. We had a rather deep friendship going, but I didn't feel right moving forward and actually claiming a relationship until about a month or so ago (which is odd for me, I usually move pretty quick). There were a lot of things that we did.. very.. differently, in this relationship. It's been good so far, though.
yeah we all told you it would suck
It doesn't suck at all! I am lucky that in my marriage with TWD I still have opportunities to do things that I could have still done when I was single (travel, do some things with my girlfriends like road trips, get an education, work in any industry I want, etc.) because when most girls get married they give that all up.
I just know I could have lost those opportunities and anyone considering getting married so young should realize these things.
On these forums, or another UT related site years ago, then in person in 2008 at our place of work.
Little hard to explain in English D: In Dutch we have distinct words for the two.
I would say "in love" is the butterfly thing, fancying a girl. The feeling on which a relationship is started. Liking each other.
"Love" is what eventually takes over. Like, what people (are supposed to) do later on in a relationship, just deep feelings of compassion for each other. You know. That which makes you say "I love you" to someone.
There's a quite solid distinction tbh. I just worded it a bit crappily.
I would say "in love" is the butterfly thing, fancying a girl. The feeling on which a relationship is started. Liking each other.
"Love" is what eventually takes over. Like, what people (are supposed to) do later on in a relationship, just deep feelings of compassion for each other. You know. That which makes you say "I love you" to someone.
There's a quite solid distinction tbh. I just worded it a bit crappily.
Met in college.
Dated 3 years.
Gave up my dream of going into Sports Medicine to marry her.
Decided 3 children were enough.
I got a vasectomy so she wouldn't have to have her tubes tied.
Married for 13 years.
6 months ago, she came to the conclusion that my usefulness to her no longer existed.
Game over
Dated 3 years.
Gave up my dream of going into Sports Medicine to marry her.
Decided 3 children were enough.
I got a vasectomy so she wouldn't have to have her tubes tied.
Married for 13 years.
6 months ago, she came to the conclusion that my usefulness to her no longer existed.
Game over