The concept we all are really looking for is equality.
I think the idea of equality between sexes is pretty unbalanced... but I blame TV, ignorance, and upbringing for that.
Let's pretend you are a typical alpha male. You spend just about a fortune on your woman and then what? Sooner or later your will run short of cash. Then someone else will overtake your investments by simply opening up a larger wallet that yours just because she is like a freelance contractor who serve whoever she wants, for money of course.
Had I ever had a fortune to spend on a female, I certainly wouldn't feel that it was a requirement to do so. Yes, I want my mate to be happy; but if it requires 2 jobs and a hefty bank loan, she's barking up the wrong tree.
What if she could spend just as much as you do on everything, together with you? As long as women can be bought, they won't really be free or loved for who they really are and men will hand them money for nothing. Why on earth should you work for her? Is a woman really free if she always is on some mans pay role?
Wow. If you know women who expect/desire this kind of treatment, send them to Jerry Springer where they belong.
Does it matter if things don't make sense in erotics? It's supposed to be art or at least main stream. Oh and this group thingie with people helping each other to have intercourse, taking turn, giving support or just watching, all humans do that, right? (Little ironic here, but if we were free of all social, economical and juridical matters orgies would be more common, like everywhere.)
Well, I can see where that might make emotional and physical bonds more open and honest, but from a health standpoint; that's just nuts (no pun intended).
Indulge me.
Perhaps you are that kind of chauvinist that think a woman could not possibly enjoy a relation free of sexual restraints?
A mate's restraints, or her own? A woman requires as much (if not more) physical & emotional attention as a man.
Yes, the art of provoking.
Yes, it's sad that even as evolved as we are, most of our arguments involve 3rd grade tactics...
People have become immoral in some fundamental way when it comes to basic decency.
Perhaps it's that we have spent so much time telling ourselves that relationships can be replaced, "there are other fish in the sea", and so on; that we forget the basic value of a relationship ultimately lays in understanding, compassion, and comprehending the value of togetherness.
People have a bad habit of treating each other as objects that are lacking in value and otherwise easily replaced.
They have no clue when it comes to what the future will bring. They most likely try to find easy ways to exploit one another with deceit and it all comes to an end. People lack simple planing skills.
I don't know about planning skills, but they certainly lack the patience to take each day in a relationship as it comes. Most people treat love like a buffet; they fill themselves up on what looks most appetizing, and leave what is most likely better for them for someone who (rare as it is) can appreciate what it does for them, and can mean to them.
I think a lot of things do make sense in mainstream porn too. Guess thats why it's so discreetly accepted and consumed.
Porn = buffet as described above.
Of course I don't trade sex slaves even thou I don't really mind the concept. My skepticism to relations in general is based on empiric studies not christianity in any way, I'm an atheist by nature. If I have issues most people will have even more issues and even more severe ones I may add.
Seeing "sex slaves" and "Christian" in the same paragraph makes me laugh.
I figure this is a good thread to ask a question. Do boys toy themselves too?
Define "toy themselves".