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Old 26th Oct 2004, 01:31 PM   #1
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Unhappy How do I get rid of this girl stalker amazon hunter

Ok this is in bottom line the opposite of "How do I approach this girl" thread.

Lemme get the full story straight first. Don't misjudge me.

2 years ago at a concert I met this girl. She's not bad looking, not that hot, just average (except she got big boobs but it never matters to me in fact I prefer smaller). Now I don't know the cause probably the atmosphere or loneliness or whatever we exchanged saliva that night. Later on few weeks later some hotness shared like at the movies and my car etc. But she was not and never my girlfriend. That is because I discover she is a psycho that calls me like 20 times a day sends me dozens of SMS text daily sending me cake and flowers and barely leaves me any room for privacy. Hell I can't even get her hands off me when I'm driving. She was like being threatening to all my other female friends. So I decided enough is enough and never responds again and changed my number and avoided the nightlife radar for a few months. I thought I lost her. I was wrong.

Today she found my Friendster account she flood message me like "Where have you been did you change your number what is your new number I hope we are still friends I want to meet you again I miss you so much" messages. And worse I found she was messaging my friends asking stuff about me. I already have this girl I'm going with at the moment but she's not yet officially my girlfriend I'd really really hate it if she stumbles on her in my friendster account and sends her like mean or something messages. Would ruin the whole approach to relationship thing I'm building for me. Help me I'm being hunted.

Now I never have the heart to be mean or be rude to a girl. The question is now how do I address this situation without being rude? I would hate to disappear again and theres always this threat of her messaging my Friendster friends (98% of them are real life friends). She could even get like my home address or something (I doubt she haven't found it already even, I'm not exactly low profile in the city). So, non violent and non rude solution if exists please?
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Old 26th Oct 2004, 01:44 PM   #2
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Just tell her that's she's being too clingy and ask her to stop suffocating you that way. Explain to her what she's doing, because she may not realize it.
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Old 26th Oct 2004, 01:49 PM   #3
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Tell her you're gay.
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Old 26th Oct 2004, 01:51 PM   #4
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Just tell her that's she's being too clingy and ask her to stop suffocating you that way. Explain to her what she's doing, because she may not realize it.
That might be applicable back then or if it happens again but lets not hope that happens again. I'd hate to hassle to block my cellphone (i'm not even sure it supports call blocking) Now what to reply? I just got a new message "Reply to my message please I just want to be your friend..."
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Old 26th Oct 2004, 01:58 PM   #5
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Tell her you're gay.
Always works for me
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Old 26th Oct 2004, 01:59 PM   #6
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Tell her you're gay.
That would not be possible my Friendster account clearly stated I'm straight and single
If I change that imagine the result for everyone who reads it.

Now I've thought some possible scenario
- "Hi, sorry I'm with a girl now and I don't quite want her see me being called by another girl" and she might reply "But I just want to be your friend etc etc"
- Ignores her completely in which she might think I'm just not online and start asking my other friends
- "Sorry I don't think I want to be involved with you anymore" in which she might reply "Why what did I do wrong why are you being so rude i just want to be your friend etc. etc. etc..."
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Old 26th Oct 2004, 02:01 PM   #7
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I had a girl like this who knew from the OMG INTERNET, wouldn't stop messaging me. She was from Texas and we used to talk on the phone and stuff when I was in high school. She turned out to be a real psycopath, making up a bunch stories to make me feel sorry for her or something. She told me her mom was in the hospital once with some sort of fatal injury or disease, that she was raped, robbed, got into car accidents, and then last thing was she had amnesia. I didn't hear from her for a while... then she started IMing me earlier this year. I would just close the window after laughing at the messages. They were so desperate and crap. First she messaged me, "OMG THIS IS TAMARA'S FRIEND U HAV 2 TALK 2 HER DUDE," week later from the same name "Hey this is Tamara plz talk 2 me I miss u omg wtf" After a couple of weeks of this (and no new funny stories from her) I finally replied, "OMG HERE COMES THE BLOCK MONSTER!!" and then I blocked her screenname. (I think that's the 5th one of hers I've blocked).
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Old 26th Oct 2004, 02:05 PM   #8
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I should just be friends with her, play down the relationship, then she'll lose interest and go away or else you'll end up with a friend!
Unless your girl is insanely jealous of any girl you happen to know!
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Old 26th Oct 2004, 02:09 PM   #9
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The problem is this stalker hunter girl is the jealous one
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Old 26th Oct 2004, 02:16 PM   #10
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SlayerDragon its easy if you're far away. The problem is altough this is a big city with more than 7 million inhabitants but still its the same city. Now I know she might not be shy to change a bit details in stuff and make her a victim in front of my friends. That would be real bad.

**** this I never thought some immature mistake 2 years ago would come back and haunt me like tool and his pic.
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Old 26th Oct 2004, 02:17 PM   #11
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1) you're seeing someone else - i'm not interested in you anymore, you're a hyperclinger.
2) leave me alone or i will get a restraining order, your constant bugging of me and mine is invading privacy and deemed illegal, get a grip.
3) notify her ISP/Cell phone company of abusive behaviour.

4) men in white coats.
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Old 26th Oct 2004, 02:23 PM   #12
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edhe's solution #4

Ahem okay I managed to formulate a sentence tell me if something's bad with this sentence or not.

"Hello, I'm sorry I don't think I can give you my new number. What was between us was the past and I don't want none involvement with you again. Sorry this might not be your fault but mine. I hope you find a new friend soon"
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Old 26th Oct 2004, 02:23 PM   #13
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tell her: "please, stop to take the piss, I know you're just making fun of me with our behaviour, but it's not funny and it never was, so stop it, give your revenge or whatever up and leave me alone, thank you"
whatever she says, just reply:"I'm not stupid, stop to take the piss, seriously!
the conversation is over"
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Old 26th Oct 2004, 02:29 PM   #14
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I don't know why you can't just sayit as it is. Tell her that you think she's being far too obsessive and that you aren't interested in her like that and you really don't want all these messeges.

The truth is usually the best option. Just be nice in the presentation.
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Old 26th Oct 2004, 02:57 PM   #15
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**** this I never thought some immature mistake 2 years ago would come back and haunt me like tool and his pic.
Oh man, that is awesome!
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Old 26th Oct 2004, 03:04 PM   #16
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The truth is usually the best option. Just be nice in the presentation.


You might also want to add,"Stop clinging to some insignificant moment that happened two years ago when I wasn't thinking clearly. Move on with your life and stop bugging me, please." Hard-hitting, but honest.

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Old 26th Oct 2004, 03:10 PM   #17
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Give her my email. I don't mind obsessive women hunting me down..
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Old 26th Oct 2004, 03:11 PM   #18
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why not the f*ck off, you're a little sl*g. That worked for me when sum ugly gal stalked me. I tried everything else apart from violent methods so I used that.
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Old 26th Oct 2004, 03:19 PM   #19
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Wow, that's like the opposite of Jc!'s problem.
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Old 26th Oct 2004, 03:20 PM   #20
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That worked for me when sum ugly gal stalked me.
sure buddy

my solution is still the best:
she will think that whatever she makes you'll see it as a joke
the truth woun't stop her, she woun't believe you and she'll attack the girl, who you're meeting atm
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