Ok this is in bottom line the opposite of "How do I approach this girl" thread.
Lemme get the full story straight first. Don't misjudge me.
2 years ago at a concert I met this girl. She's not bad looking, not that hot, just average (except she got big boobs but it never matters to me in fact I prefer smaller). Now I don't know the cause probably the atmosphere or loneliness or whatever we exchanged saliva that night. Later on few weeks later some hotness shared like at the movies and my car etc. But she was not and never my girlfriend. That is because I discover she is a psycho that calls me like 20 times a day sends me dozens of SMS text daily sending me cake and flowers and barely leaves me any room for privacy. Hell I can't even get her hands off me when I'm driving. She was like being threatening to all my other female friends. So I decided enough is enough and never responds again and changed my number and avoided the nightlife radar for a few months. I thought I lost her. I was wrong.
Today she found my Friendster account she flood message me like "Where have you been did you change your number what is your new number I hope we are still friends I want to meet you again I miss you so much" messages. And worse I found she was messaging my friends asking stuff about me. I already have this girl I'm going with at the moment but she's not yet officially my girlfriend I'd really really hate it if she stumbles on her in my friendster account and sends her like mean or something messages. Would ruin the whole approach to relationship thing I'm building for me. Help me I'm being hunted.
Now I never have the heart to be mean or be rude to a girl. The question is now how do I address this situation without being rude? I would hate to disappear again and theres always this threat of her messaging my Friendster friends (98% of them are real life friends). She could even get like my home address or something (I doubt she haven't found it already even, I'm not exactly low profile in the city). So, non violent and non rude solution if exists please?
Lemme get the full story straight first. Don't misjudge me.
2 years ago at a concert I met this girl. She's not bad looking, not that hot, just average (except she got big boobs but it never matters to me in fact I prefer smaller). Now I don't know the cause probably the atmosphere or loneliness or whatever we exchanged saliva that night. Later on few weeks later some hotness shared like at the movies and my car etc. But she was not and never my girlfriend. That is because I discover she is a psycho that calls me like 20 times a day sends me dozens of SMS text daily sending me cake and flowers and barely leaves me any room for privacy. Hell I can't even get her hands off me when I'm driving. She was like being threatening to all my other female friends. So I decided enough is enough and never responds again and changed my number and avoided the nightlife radar for a few months. I thought I lost her. I was wrong.
Today she found my Friendster account she flood message me like "Where have you been did you change your number what is your new number I hope we are still friends I want to meet you again I miss you so much" messages. And worse I found she was messaging my friends asking stuff about me. I already have this girl I'm going with at the moment but she's not yet officially my girlfriend I'd really really hate it if she stumbles on her in my friendster account and sends her like mean or something messages. Would ruin the whole approach to relationship thing I'm building for me. Help me I'm being hunted.
Now I never have the heart to be mean or be rude to a girl. The question is now how do I address this situation without being rude? I would hate to disappear again and theres always this threat of her messaging my Friendster friends (98% of them are real life friends). She could even get like my home address or something (I doubt she haven't found it already even, I'm not exactly low profile in the city). So, non violent and non rude solution if exists please?