Breaking up with a good girlfriend
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You know you really didn't even need to ask right? Your relationship with this one is doomed. Move along. Nothing to see here.
Anybody want to put money on it?
Be a gentleman at least and break it off clean and directly.
There is nothing wrong with you wanting others right now. There is nothing wrong with it later for that matter. It is whether you act on it or not that matters. Consider this... I'm guessing she is younger than you based on that being a common relationship standard still. If that is true as I suspect it is she is going to dump you anyways by the time she is 26.
Anybody want to put money on it? Don't flame me without lots of money to back up your rage. LOL I need a new car!
The question you should be asking yourself is whether in 5 -10 years you feel you might think she was the one that got away. It is messed up like that but true. Go get some strange. It will make you feel better!
Anybody want to put money on it?
Be a gentleman at least and break it off clean and directly.
There is nothing wrong with you wanting others right now. There is nothing wrong with it later for that matter. It is whether you act on it or not that matters. Consider this... I'm guessing she is younger than you based on that being a common relationship standard still. If that is true as I suspect it is she is going to dump you anyways by the time she is 26.
Anybody want to put money on it? Don't flame me without lots of money to back up your rage. LOL I need a new car!
The question you should be asking yourself is whether in 5 -10 years you feel you might think she was the one that got away. It is messed up like that but true. Go get some strange. It will make you feel better!
Your life sounds really stressful and terrible, I can see why you need to ask the internet for advice.
This is probably the only real answer available here.
If I had to say anything:
1. Cheating never works because everyone involved gets hurt. Humans, by nature, are jealous and possessive.
2. Open relationships never work because everyone involved gets hurt. Humans, by nature, are jealous and possessive.
3. That old song: "I need a lover who won't drive me crazy". You are doing your head in over this. You have said she is level headed and not crazy.
As for all of the above I'm speaking from experience.
I've been "married" three times and, eventually, I learned that when you find a good woman, a friend who looks after you and doesn't do your head in, because she's not f***ed in the head, you're on a winner and are a lucky man.
Anyway that's my opinion.... I don't like getting preachy.
Go with your gut.............
Be single while you are young. When you are ready to settle down, swoop in on someone in their early 20's. Best advice I can give you.
Of course, I would like to see a pic of you two together before any final judgement.
PM me if you'd like. I was in a similar dilemma. If you havent gotten the 'wild' out of your system. you will regret it.
Of course, I would like to see a pic of you two together before any final judgement.
PM me if you'd like. I was in a similar dilemma. If you havent gotten the 'wild' out of your system. you will regret it.
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So basically... You've got a great woman. Unfortunately, she just isn't good enough for you anymore so you feel the need to drop her and move to 'greener' pussy.
Yeah, you're a fucking idiot.
If you break up with her now you'll be regretting it in a big way six months from now. That is, unless you can set things up so you can magically get back together with her; good luck with that.
Yeah, you're a fucking idiot.
If you break up with her now you'll be regretting it in a big way six months from now. That is, unless you can set things up so you can magically get back together with her; good luck with that.
I'm an adept of an old practice of never settling down with anyone. Not officially, at least. BTW I find this whole marriage thing just plain awful. I think people should be more free. Forget about relationships, forget about conventions, just be together with whoever you want to be.
But i might be slightly drunk right now
But i might be slightly drunk right now
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United Kingdom is not a country.
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PM me if you'd like. I was in a similar dilemma. If you havent gotten the 'wild' out of your system. you will regret it.[/QUOTE said:
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That would be detrimental to society.
I would imagine it as hollow world full of hedonistic douchebags. And also a lot more babies.
