"lets just be friends"

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TossMonkey

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I just told a girl I don't want to see her unless she wants more than a plutonic relationship. She uttered the infamous "well, we can still be friends though" line. I said, "no, I have enough female 'friends' to last me a lifetime, I don't need anymore".

I almost felt mean, but then I thought to myself "she's let me ring her every night for the last 3 weeks and blow a ton of money on my phonebill", even though on the second date she didn't see me as a potential boyfriend figure. Bitch.

I can't wait for the next woman to come along, string me along for 3 weeks while I spend a fortune on her and then tell me she never saw me as a boyfriend figure in all the time I was dating her. Does life get any more fun than this?
 

flookster

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That sucks TM :(

I took myself off the market quite some time ago and to be honest havent been as happy in years. I guess I just needed some "me" time. Besides adjusting my personality to suit some temporary gf was never going to work. But if you need a partner - I am sure there is one out there for you and at least you will be able to go to elan now. Silver linings. :tup:
 

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Wait. You wanted her as your GF, she didnt, she just wanted to be friends and now she's a bitch for liking you in a way your not happy with.

Im sorry but that sounds a little dumb.
 

TossMonkey

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Deepershade, she's a bitch because she never once in the 3 weeks I've been blowing money on her saw me as a boyfriend figure.

Did she just think I was really kind? Did she think I just love spending a load of money on going to the pub and the cinema while she sits there happily with her free cinema ticket and free beer?

She took me for a ride. Plain and simple.
 

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o_O

Your angry, and hurt. Its easy to believe the worst in people when you fur's ruffled. If in those 3 weeks she hasnt seen you as a boyfriend figure, why did you keep spending money on her?

Sorry man, i know it hurts but i cant see that she's entirely to blame...
 

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OH NOES!!! TEH HARRISON BERGERON HAS TOOLVANA!!

TM - I have no doubt you are absolutely right about this one. Bitch may be a little strong, but no one's that naive...
 

TossMonkey

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I kept spending money on her because she gave me the wrong impressions. We'd kiss and talk and it was your typical date situation.

Look, if a girl kisses me what am I supposed to think? It's not exactly a signal that she wants a plutonic relationship is it?
 

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DeeperShade said:
Wait. You wanted her as your GF, she didnt, she just wanted to be friends and now she's a bitch for liking you in a way your not happy with.

Im sorry but that sounds a little dumb.


Indeed, im sure she wasnt asking you to spend money on her.
 

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Sucks TM, many of us have been in this situation (or similar), I'm sure. Myself included.. Drove me literally insane.
 

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Well, I've told my friends my sexual alignment; asexual
That means that until I find my true "anima", I won't bother with dating or anything.
i'll just live the free life and do whatever I want, and when I meet her, it's all gonna work out.

There's a chinese saying that when you're born, your feet are sewn to the feet of the person you're gonna marry.
So if my feet are sewn, I will meet her someday, and if they aren't, I won't.
Fatalistic, but I don't give an excrement... :B
 
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