...than never to have loved at all

[purice]

There was a thread a couple of weeks ago about a big breakup I went through after a three year relationship. It's been an emotional roller coaster since then for me and the "old lady". We're getting together for dinner tonight for the first time since all the fireworks. It's her idea. I'm either going to be getting the final axe, some information I wasn't previously aware of that I'll no doubt be unhappy about, or we'll be working things out.

Wish me luck, or godspeed or good kharma or whatever. I'll need it.

[Selerox]

Ouch, good luck :(

[missPoopShoot]

Good luck. I hope whichever way it works out you're happy eventually :hmm:

[BobCobb]

Well, hopefully the outcome will make you happy. If not, finding new poon should be your first objective.

[purice]

Well, hopefully the outcome will make you happy. If not, finding new poon should be your first objective.

absolutely

[GotBeer?]

Don't do it! It's a trap!

[Selerox]

Don't do it! It's a trap!

It's a trap!

http://www.x-entertainment.com/stuff/ack1.jpg (http://www.itsatrap.net/)

[Jackal]

Do it only if you want it. 3 years is alot I admit. But unless your truely happy, deep inside, then don't even bother. If you want to marry this woman, then do it. Otherwise, I see it as a emotional break down that you don't need.

[Zxanphorian]

It's a trap!

http://www.x-entertainment.com/stuff/ack1.jpg (http://www.itsatrap.net/)

It's a tarp!


http://www.farwesthistory.com/images/lhprog/tarp.jpg

[Israphel]

Good luck with it

[Kantham]

Yeah i remember the thread. Good luck.

[das_ben]

I concur. Don't forget to update us about the situation.

[sid]

best of luck!!
okay where is cupid ????

[Freon]

It's her idea...
Maybe she'll confess you she's into strap-ons and domination :mwink:

Good luck

[purice]

Maybe she'll confess you she's into strap-ons and domination :mwink:
I can roll with that, as long as I don't have to take one in the tube ;)

Long story short, she said she wants to make it work. And so do I. We're going to start over and take things slowly.

Thanks again for all the comments and support, especially you, Israfel. What you said in the other thread really made a difference. I won't forget it.

[Israphel]

:) Thanks

Since you started this thread yesterday I've been keeping an eye on it, hoping that it was going to work out.

Glad it has.

You obviously both want it to, and that's usually all it takes. With my girlfriend now, we had our ups and downs, we split up for a few months, and that was when we both realised that we wanted it to work, got back together and we're still going strong.

I really believe that stuff likes this makes your relationship stronger.

So good luck for the future. Take care.

Edit: Funny that, but you've just made my day....

[missPoopShoot]

Happy for you. You must be pleased! Gives us all hope that sometimes relationships aren't lost til you give up on them.

[ThirtySixBelow]

Long story short, she said she wants to make it work. And so do I. We're going to start over and take things slowly.

\o/
Making relationships work can be hard sometimes, but it's good to see you are getting another chance. She must care about you a lot still. Good Luck.

[DRT-Maverick]

Women are teh painful! I went through a breakup awhile ago with kasey, and we never worked things out as a couple. We're still close friends, but now she has a new boyfriend, so I don't know how long that friendship's gonna last. Sucks man, but I do think I'd be happier right now if I had never been in love before. All those relationships that just ****ing destroyed me each time have worn me out a bit.

[Kaithofis]

Women are teh painful! I went through a breakup awhile ago with kasey, and we never worked things out as a couple. We're still close friends, but now she has a new boyfriend, so I don't know how long that friendship's gonna last. Sucks man, but I do think I'd be happier right now if I had never been in love before. All those relationships that just ****ing destroyed me each time have worn me out a bit.

Oh yes, the jealousy.
I'm in sort of a similar situation, except that "she" is my colleague.
Yeah... working just isn't as fun with her around. Not anymore, at least.

I hope you get through this well.

[DRT-Maverick]

Oh yes, the jealousy.
I'm in sort of a similar situation, except that "she" is my colleague.
Yeah... working just isn't as fun with her around. Not anymore, at least.

I hope you get through this well.

Aye she's my colleague as well, we're both putting together a gallery for a small art bar. You put your art up there and people buy it when they see it and are drunk. :B So it's hard having to work with her when she and I used to have something.

[purice]

Happy for you. You must be pleased! Gives us all hope that sometimes relationships aren't lost til you give up on them.

yes, i'm very pleased. giving up was not an option for me. it would have probably
gotten ugly if things would have turned out differently.

\o/
Making relationships work can be hard sometimes, but it's good to see you are getting another chance. She must care about you a lot still. Good Luck.

a lot of people don't get second chances. i won't waste mine. and i won't forget the help i got from the people i least expected would care to help me. (<-nice grammar :p)

it's hard having to work with her when she and I used to have something.

that would really suck. like walkingman said, it makes you want to drink hard liquor straight from the bottle.


we're going on our first date tomorrow night. reservations are made and i just got my fat xmas bonus. wine, dine and who knows... :D